The negative rap music and Hip Hop culture adds to the problem in their stink'in think'in. I heard a rap artist say in his song, "I don't want you girl, I just want yo booty." SAD!

How can one trust in the mist of mistrust? How can the marriage be made whole again? In this case is it best to be friends than husband and wife after the healing process is over? How can you love someone you just don't like? The husband calls his wife at work, when she's home, when she's driving in her car to say once again,

As we move into this year remember we cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails. We have the power to have control over each day that we wake up to.

The mistakes of the past is over so it's time we start making right choices and no more mistakes only if we think before we act. You can never make a mistake twice. Because the second time is not a mistake, it's a choice. "Ooowee"! Write that down.